Well, I'm officially unemployed. It was a weird feeling this morning waking up and knowing that I don't have a job to go back to. My last day actually didn't really feel like my last day. I will honestly miss having a job, I know I will.
I'm definitely going to miss my office row mates. I don't care what anyone says, we had the best row. Just look how much fun we had:
Friday Office Breakfast! Amazing last breakfast.
Great job guys!!!
Yummy... ice creams sundaes for breakfast are never complete without a Babybel!
And here are some pics of my desk - before and after:
So time is a ticking and my days in Canada are becoming limited. I feel like I've been talking about this move forever (I guess because I have.. oops) and while it definitely feels more real than it did almost a month ago in my last post.... I don't think it's "officially" sunk in yet. I'll let you know when it does :)
Things in my life have been pretty much the same, even with 10 days left. I worked late tonight, haven't started packing yet, will be having a jewelry sale (my last for awhile, tear) at work on Thursday. It doesn't really feel like I only have 3 days left of work, but I do.
The one thing I've been thinking about a lot lately is the concept of 'fate'.
I've always been a big believer in fate. But, I also believe that we have control of our destiny... so I guess I believe that while fate exists, we can also chose our fate by making certain decisions. I've always thought that fate brought Robin and I together.
When I think about it, we had so much, yet so little in common at that time. We come from very different worlds, but have been able to intertwine those worlds so well together. He's given me a taste of city life and I've introduced him to suburban living (it's not so bad afterall..). He doesn't like to spend money, I love to spend money. He hates sour foods, and I love them. He's very neat, and I'm very messy. His humour is very sarcastic, mine is dry.
But mostly, we are the same. We both love food and eating. We both love reality tv (although I'm sure he would never admit to that). We both love to go on cruises. We both love to do nothing. Most importantly, we both share the same values and have equally comitted to making this all happen.
So I don't know, I suppose fate brought us together. But, ultimately have we chosen this destiny for ourselves?
Anyways, that's just my food for thought this evening. Didn't mean to get all deep or anything. Stay tuned for more posts leading up to the move...
It's going to get hectic! I plan to post more photos too as this progresses.
Well, the countdown is officially on. 39 days and I will no longer be living in Canada.
I just dropped Robin off at the airport and we had our very last good bye as a long-distance couple. It was a very strange moment for us. Sadder than usual, but also very exciting. We have been looking forward to this moment of our lives for a very long time (almost 6 years!) and it's finally happening. I must say that I always knew in my heart it was going to happen, so that never worried me. And, I know it's not going to be easy. We have a long road of adjusting ahead of us. But, I'm not scared. Nervous about a new job and making new friends? Yes, definitely. But I'm not at all scared.
I've always loved change, embraced change with big open arms and this case is no different for me. Don't get me wrong, I will miss my family and friends deeply, more than they will ever know. But I am confident that this is the right thing for me to do right now and appreciate their support so much.
I don't even feel like a chapter of my life is ending. I feel like I'm nearing the end of Part. 1. And, on June 6th, Part 2 will begin. In my case, Part 1 has a very happy ending and I'm looking forward to a different set of adventures and challenges and hope that you'll follow me as I begin the next part of my life. Don't you love finishing a really good book and then realizing that the book as a sequel? I love that feeling.
I plan to use this blog to showcase my experience and adventures in NYC. Sounds silly to say it, but I'm going to be a new immigrant. How cool is that? I'm packing my bags and leaving everything I know and love behind... but I'm doing it for love and honestly who wouldn't?
I'll try to post lots of photos and capture my new life for everyone to see.
So, I guess I'm not the most dedicated blogger but I'm back!
The past month has been pretty busy I must say. There's been lot's of progress with my big move. If all goes well, I should have my US visa March 18th! I'm hoping to move by the end of June if all goes as planned. I'm really looking forward to the next chapter of my life...
Last week we met with my priest to book our wedding at the church. It was a really enlightening experience. It made me realize just how amazing marrying the person you love with all your heart really is. It's not about the dress or the venue or the food or the pictures... it's about the love that we share and the rest of our lives together as a family. Each day is going to be a new lesson and some days will probably be easier than others. But ultimately, I know that I could never live without Robin. We're so much the same, yet so different. We can tell each other anything and everything and we do. We share the same love for food and cruises... and most of all we both share the same faith and values. I know that this will help us through our good times, our tough times and everything in between.
With that I've realized that I need to attend church more and really get back into my faith. I also want to be a better person overall. Be less wasteful, save money for our future together and be disciplined to stay organized and continue living a healthy lifestyle.
The priest made a really good point about how going to church is about more than just going to church. It's about being disciplined and having faith in life. I know this isn't really a topic that a lot of people believe or whatever, and to each their own. But, I do agree with him, that when we are more disciplined in our lives and keep the faith, we are all better people and lead fulfilling lives.
Anyways, I think that's enough out of me for one day. Thanks for listening and remember to keep the faith... whatever faith that may be <3
Recently engaged to the love of my life, I'm a laid back, passionate and optimistic Canadian engaged to the most amazing New Yorker. I am moving to NYC on June 6th, 2009 and will document my move and relationship on this blog. Stay tuned.
